“Not making resolutions” has been my resolution the last few years, but this year I am ready. I need an improved version of myself and now that I am closer to 70 than 60, it seems appropriate. I live in an “over 55” community, which is great in terms of opportunities to meet people and stay busy. But in my mind, I am not a “senior citizen” and hanging out with those who embrace that label makes me feel like I don’t fit in. Last night we had a neighborhood dinner and I was seated next to a man who was obviously still affected by his experience serving in the navy during the Vietnam war and would not stop talking about it. While I empathize with him, there comes a time when you need to leave the past in the past and focus your life on the present! So many of us have had one or more traumatic things happen to us. How long do you let it direct your life? Some may call me ruthless or uncaring. But I have been able to overcome my own garden of weeds in my past with one word: forgive. I forgive my past self for being a dumbass several times over. I forgive those in my life who hurt me and abused me. My heart is open to love and receive love. In 2026, I resolve to use the knowledge that what I do in the remaining three years of my 60’s wisely, for they will determine how I feel in my 70’s. I will keep moving my body so I don’t rust in place. I will continue working to keep my mind sharp and active. I will travel for work and fun and always have the next trip planned. In 2026 I have three trips on the books and we are already planning one big one in 2027! Always have something to look forward to, no matter how small. The next trip, the next holiday, the next family get together. Always keep looking ahead. Don’t look behind you, you’re not heading that way! Here’s to a happy and healthy 2026!

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